tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post114157007782058355..comments2023-10-30T09:04:00.112-04:00Comments on Tales of a Bi "MWM": TherapyNatehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13642480079983859304noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1141638442488381032006-03-06T04:47:00.000-05:002006-03-06T04:47:00.000-05:00I am thinking of you today as you have your first ...I am thinking of you today as you have your first trip to the new therapist. You arein my thoughts and prayers.Anthonyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17900665225207683233noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1141587157672844642006-03-05T14:32:00.000-05:002006-03-05T14:32:00.000-05:00Best of luck. My experience is that it can take a...Best of luck. My experience is that it can take a long time for it to start working but it has been well worth it.<BR/><BR/>I also had some false starts. One therapist who, upon my revelation to him that I had attractions to men, immediately exclaimed that he was "straight as an arrow - had never had feelings like that." I found that vaguely interesting but somewhat irrelevant to understanding myself better. And I had not said it while caressing his leg or chasing him around the office.<BR/><BR/>The next one, a woman, reacted by asking me if I was really sure I was gay. Now I know well enough to know how irrelevant that question, and any answer to it, really is. At the time I thought it was a strange question.<BR/><BR/>Anyway, I guess my experience is that it took a while to find the right therapist and a while for it to help. Hang in there.Fliphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08141642385903218686noreply@blogger.com