tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post114631309748865121..comments2023-10-30T09:04:00.112-04:00Comments on Tales of a Bi "MWM": Honest AnswersNatehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13642480079983859304noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1146386227179974782006-04-30T04:37:00.000-04:002006-04-30T04:37:00.000-04:00As the saying goes: acceptance is the first step? ...As the saying goes: acceptance is the first step? Amazing understanding you have with your wife. (This is very unconventional? Few wives would go here I think.) She must be very understanding and your communication must be at a level that is difficult to comprehend for the rest of us. This might be why you are also so easily able to accept this fact of yourself, the person you would be hurting is somewhat understanding so you are able to move forward...<BR/>I'm a little confused about the arrangement still, are you saying she is okay with you having these gay encounters in Chicago and even AFTER you come back from Chicago?<BR/>Also, help me understand your feelings towards these men, for example, after you have sex, are they still desireable and do you feel like you fall in love with them and long to spend time with them etc? It sounds like you are just scratching an "itch"...<BR/>These labels of bi/straight/gay have whatever meaning you give them I think. Perhaps you're like the opposite of me, I lust for women, and I have lust for some guys (lust meaning after we have sex I lose interest) but fall in love with other guys (love meaning I want to spoon, spend time with, have non sexual intimacy etc.) What clear cut label is that? It's obviously not clear! I guess that's the nature of "bi" :)bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17303698155753090199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1146337081560234002006-04-29T14:58:00.000-04:002006-04-29T14:58:00.000-04:00Nate,You really do have an incredible wife. I thi...Nate,<BR/><BR/>You really do have an incredible wife. I think her proposal is a good and fair one.<BR/><BR/>The committment that you have to one another is really beautiful.Bradhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16190267465793960104noreply@blogger.com