tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post114661863420747326..comments2023-10-30T09:04:00.112-04:00Comments on Tales of a Bi "MWM": CultureNatehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13642480079983859304noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1146827662498976302006-05-05T07:14:00.000-04:002006-05-05T07:14:00.000-04:00Chicago - half time:So much to post wheb I get hom...Chicago - half time:<BR/>So much to post wheb I get home. Thanks for the comments and yes Spider - Iknow I'm gay even if I cannot start to fathom what it ultimately means. <BR/>NateAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1146751841143251362006-05-04T10:10:00.000-04:002006-05-04T10:10:00.000-04:00The labeling theory.....first addressed in mental ...The labeling theory.....first addressed in mental health circles: Major depression, schizophrenia, alcohol dependent, cocaine dependent, etc. Just as there are various diagnoses of depression, I am going to suggest that there are various degrees of "gay".<BR/><BR/>The polar opposites are gay versus straight with bisexuality somewhere fluctuating in the middle. So Brad doesn't like sequins, does that mean that he is leaning more toward the straight end? My point here is that bisexuals, for the most part, are not accepted in either the gay or straight "cultures". They are viewed with suspicions from both camps.<BR/><BR/>I was on gay.com last night chatting when I almost got "caught" by my wife. I wasn't looking for a hookup, just wasting time late at night trying to get sleepy. I'm sure she suspects something. Our love life is minimal. However, I'm not willing to leave her or my kids that I love dearly. I was a product of divorce, so I have my own abandonment issues to deal with. However, when my wife gets "bitchy" I wonder if it would be easier to get a divorce or just stick it out.<BR/><BR/>FYI....homosexuality was listed as a mental disorder by the American Psychological Association up until the 1970's, when it was removed. There are four areas within the GLBT community....not just two. I'm suggesting an alternate paradigm.Restored Vowshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01616466800863771219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1146710949979260342006-05-03T22:49:00.000-04:002006-05-03T22:49:00.000-04:00(uh, oh...I was found out..teehee!)"What's in a na...(uh, oh...I was found out..teehee!)<BR/><BR/>"What's in a name? That which we call a rose. By any other word would smell as sweet." <BR/><BR/>(and taste so...salty?!)bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17303698155753090199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1146666718750169832006-05-03T10:31:00.000-04:002006-05-03T10:31:00.000-04:00Guys - I hate to break the news to all three of yo...Guys - I hate to break the news to all three of you, but you are gay! And I am happy as HELL that you all are!Spiderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12674252850304214980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1146650109936731132006-05-03T05:55:00.000-04:002006-05-03T05:55:00.000-04:00Speaking for myself I am fair convinced I am gay. ...Speaking for myself I am fair convinced I am gay. Of course every so often I have a fantasy involving a woman. Convienient for me to pull out the Bi lable then.<BR/><BR/>Somedays I aint straight enough. Some days I suspect not gay enough. I will have to settle for a Not Straight Card.<BR/><BR/>Your previous post had me rolling with laughter. No you could not make that up.Anthonyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17900665225207683233noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1146629734876978072006-05-03T00:15:00.000-04:002006-05-03T00:15:00.000-04:00I have been accused of not being gay enough. When...I have been accused of not being gay enough. When I first came out, people at the bars thought I was an undercover cop.<BR/><BR/>You're right, I'm certainly not sashaying down Main Street in a sequined outfit.<BR/><BR/>But, I do accept the fact that I am gay. That's a no brainer, at least for me. It's more than just the sex thing.<BR/><BR/>I don't tell many people this Nate, but women frighten me.<BR/><BR/>You're right about another thing. My lawn is looking mighty green and manicured right now.Bradhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16190267465793960104noreply@blogger.com