tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post114830280145918473..comments2023-10-30T09:04:00.112-04:00Comments on Tales of a Bi "MWM": Missing or Just InvisibleNatehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13642480079983859304noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1148509824105772842006-05-24T18:30:00.000-04:002006-05-24T18:30:00.000-04:00Nate:You are blessed, and it may take a while for ...Nate:<BR/><BR/>You are blessed, and it may take a while for it to become visible to you. But I have been following you and KA and the rest of the cast for a while, and I think that you need to remember that you cannot be "at home" and "on the road" at the same time.<BR/><BR/>You are definitely "on the road". When you settle, so will the people around you. <BR/><BR/>Keep breathing.<BR/>Count your blessings.<BR/><BR/>Hang in there.<BR/>The TrollA Troll At Seahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09247836451322342385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1148479577392693512006-05-24T10:06:00.000-04:002006-05-24T10:06:00.000-04:00You hit the nail on the head - it is the acceptanc...You hit the nail on the head - it is the acceptance thing - being accepted by your own kind - another man and a gay man... that is what it is/was/will be for me... that need for acceptance that I never got as a child...Spiderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12674252850304214980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1148370069300179912006-05-23T03:41:00.000-04:002006-05-23T03:41:00.000-04:00I think this is an interesting line of thought, no...I think this is an interesting line of thought, not sure exactly what to make of it. (Does it actually feel like something is missing?) <BR/>For some reason, I think it's maybe related to what I was pestering you about weeks ago...I don't see you falling in love with guys, emotionally (have you ever?) Now, I'm talking about the heart wrenching soul crushing version of falling in love...the one that makes you insane, giddy, playful and a blabbering idiot too.<BR/>Maybe the anonymous sex is more about just sex than, say, commitment. A commitment you are not really interested in.<BR/>And then maybe that's not the way you work and NOTHING is missing and that you just think you SHOULD be connecting with these guys but don't feel compelled to...<BR/>Because even if you think you had buried it or surpressed it, I think you STILL would have fallen in love or had crushes so many times by now that it would be obvious to you...so I think you just don't work that way. :)bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17303698155753090199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1148330154444849242006-05-22T16:35:00.000-04:002006-05-22T16:35:00.000-04:00So much of what you said, I have experienced and s...So much of what you said, I have experienced and still am. Oddly I am single. There is this bond element that does seem to lack in my life, perhaps all gay males' lives. Perhaps its that emotional side that so many males hide. Who knows... just keep talking though it. You'll finnd your answers sooner or later.Tonyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03669260042419738091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1148316483201052312006-05-22T12:48:00.000-04:002006-05-22T12:48:00.000-04:00It just dawned on me that living in a large metrop...It just dawned on me that living in a large metropolitan area as you do,there must be gay common interest groups. Why not find a "gay" golf league and practice/play with them? It's a non-sexual way to meet and communicate with real people and it will improve your game.KA can even join you from time to time. I was involved with a gay tennis league when I lived in NYC and it was a blast.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1148307843019213072006-05-22T10:24:00.000-04:002006-05-22T10:24:00.000-04:00I have gay friends and straight friends that all f...I have gay friends and straight friends that all fit nicely in the fabric of my life.<BR/><BR/>I suppose it could be viewed as a "club" or a "clique", but I just seem to have a lot in common with these people.<BR/><BR/>Of course, I've been "out" since I was seventeen, so it would be only natural that I would seek out people that I could identify with. I've had time.<BR/><BR/>As far as just chatting back and forth with you here, and by email, the "gay issues" that you have were obviously the reason for us getting to know one another, but even without that, I think we would have quite a bit to talk about, anyway. If I knew you in your "real life" I would certainly think of you as a friend.<BR/><BR/>Hell, we might talk about Simon and Garfunkel for a couple of hours, at least.Bradhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16190267465793960104noreply@blogger.com