tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post114904124802528239..comments2023-10-30T09:04:00.112-04:00Comments on Tales of a Bi "MWM": Shifitng SandsNatehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13642480079983859304noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1149466013254287292006-06-04T20:06:00.000-04:002006-06-04T20:06:00.000-04:00Paul-Jerry is an affair - not the love of my life ...Paul-<BR/>Jerry is an affair - not the love of my life - but a friend with benefits if you would - not a bad thing.<BR/><BR/>And to your questions - I love my wife deeply and would hope the end of the story is with us married together.Natehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13642480079983859304noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1149371746509440502006-06-03T17:55:00.000-04:002006-06-03T17:55:00.000-04:00Nate,I honestly think that Jerry was an affair. N...Nate,<BR/><BR/>I honestly think that Jerry was an affair. Nothing more. And yes, affairs are emotional. But rarely lasting.<BR/><BR/>One question .... assume that you had never outed yourself to K (an action which I realize that you can no longer take back) .... would you at this time wish to remain married?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1149267958972538682006-06-02T13:05:00.000-04:002006-06-02T13:05:00.000-04:00Nate...We are each making our own moves here. I ag...Nate...<BR/><BR/>We are each making our own moves here. I agree with Frank, take it slowly. I know I am.Tonyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03669260042419738091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1149143748586811322006-06-01T02:35:00.000-04:002006-06-01T02:35:00.000-04:00Synchronicity: yeah,I've noticed a lot between you...Synchronicity: yeah,I've noticed a lot between you guys, I suspect there will be slight divergence<BR/>once each starts walking down his own paths.<BR/><BR/>Trip: amazing...will it really "get it out of your system" - because you feel it's "just a phase"... AND/OR Is it to explore the emotional connection you had further?<BR/><BR/>Friends outing: phew, sounds like you're having a pretty good experience so far. I think you get a gut feeling on who can take it and who cannot. I love his comment...too funny.<BR/><BR/>Sadness: it's a side-effect of change. Whenever something changes it's previous self is lost, that honestly wasn't "bad." The question - is it for better?bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17303698155753090199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1149110579180706452006-05-31T17:22:00.000-04:002006-05-31T17:22:00.000-04:00Nate:Yes, the "synchronicity" seems a bit much at ...Nate:<BR/><BR/>Yes, the "synchronicity" seems a bit much at times, but what gives me hope is that in spite of the ups and DOWNS, we are all still hanging on.<BR/><BR/>It's not just the easy way out.<BR/>Some of it has to mean something.<BR/><BR/>Rough day here.<BR/>the<BR/>TrollA Troll At Seahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09247836451322342385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1149080172929228052006-05-31T08:56:00.000-04:002006-05-31T08:56:00.000-04:00Wise words from Brad....Nate, no one is holding a ...Wise words from Brad....<BR/><BR/>Nate, no one is holding a gun to your head... No life altering decisions have to be made now. Life isn't black or white....remember...there are many shades of gray in between.<BR/><BR/>One step at a time...slowly...gingerly.Frankhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09470881241840857639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-1149041696221233222006-05-30T22:14:00.000-04:002006-05-30T22:14:00.000-04:00But, had you never broached this subject with your...But, had you never broached this subject with your wife, your soul-mate, ultimately what kind of relationship would you have?<BR/><BR/>Take it really easy, kiddo. This doesn't have to be all or nothing.<BR/><BR/>B.Bradhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16190267465793960104noreply@blogger.com