tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post2426286093275701880..comments2023-10-30T09:04:00.112-04:00Comments on Tales of a Bi "MWM": Two Minute DrillNatehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13642480079983859304noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-79750955228114354972007-03-24T09:37:00.000-04:002007-03-24T09:37:00.000-04:00Hi, I just wanted to say that my husband (and best...Hi, I just wanted to say that my husband (and best friend) came out to me 11 years ago. We divorced, because, like Carrie, I could not envision a gay husband. And we are both still single. Is this better than the companionship we once had? I am not sure. But he wanted to have sex with men, and I have too much self regard to stay in a marriage where he was fooling around. He is now HIV+, by the way, so be very careful.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-73542399320117859332007-03-22T13:13:00.000-04:002007-03-22T13:13:00.000-04:00I guess I was more envisioning your just doing it....I guess I was more envisioning your just doing it...not talking about it...and letting your actions speak for themselves.<BR/><BR/>What did you expect her to say?<BR/><BR/>I'll duck back into my prairie dog hole now...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-22306279106722681402007-03-21T22:26:00.000-04:002007-03-21T22:26:00.000-04:00Thanks for the comments guys.Flip - I did mention ...Thanks for the comments guys.<BR/><BR/>Flip - I did mention your comment to Carrie and her response was interesting - "prolonging the inevitable"Natehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13642480079983859304noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-62083740722399866612007-03-21T13:10:00.000-04:002007-03-21T13:10:00.000-04:00Hi Nate,What would happen if you called "time out"...Hi Nate,<BR/><BR/>What would happen if you called "time out" on searching for fulfillment through your new-found gayness and focus on Carrie and the kids for a year or two? I mean worst case you might miss out on some sex - which it already seems you're not that involved in, and best case you might find what it is you're really looking for.<BR/><BR/>You seem to be continuing to struggle to find your own personal truth. Perhaps you need to look outside yourself for a change.<BR/><BR/>Just an idea.<BR/><BR/>FAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-59211527011820588182007-03-20T20:07:00.000-04:002007-03-20T20:07:00.000-04:00HakaN:"The hard thing is that Carrie envisions tha...HakaN:<BR/><BR/>"The hard thing is that Carrie envisions that I will find a man where I can have the same level of compatibility as I have with her. I am not as sanguine about our future. I truly see an honest future which comes with the price of both of us being lonelier than we would have been together."<BR/><BR/>I've heard that somewhere before...<BR/><BR/>The scariest thing about leaving is the "knowledge" that I will never find another home like the one I am leaving. (Am leaving? where are my brains? HAVE LEFT!) <BR/><BR/>But we have to live in hope, or life is hopeless. And who can face that?<BR/><BR/>T@CA Troll At Seahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09247836451322342385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-55887648109907087502007-03-20T02:28:00.000-04:002007-03-20T02:28:00.000-04:00Well-stated. Simple and understandable.I'm sure it...Well-stated. Simple and understandable.<BR/><BR/>I'm sure it took you longer than two minutes to write, it took me longer than two minutes just to read.Paulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11877772974936424670noreply@blogger.com