tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post4398637850880362637..comments2023-10-30T09:04:00.112-04:00Comments on Tales of a Bi "MWM": GrowthNatehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13642480079983859304noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-66539118321639892672007-01-17T03:54:00.000-05:002007-01-17T03:54:00.000-05:00Hey, I think that this is an interesting place you...Hey, I think that this is an interesting place you're at in this journey. (It's really a cliff-hanger to read! There is a truth in Carrie's comment.) Yet, the reality is that I think it'll take time for you, your family and Carrie, to figure this all out, a lot of what you say here makes a lot of sense and will take some time to resolve. You'll see all of this more clearly then, and hopefully, let us know what you've found... :)bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17303698155753090199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-7222367044604403682007-01-15T18:07:00.000-05:002007-01-15T18:07:00.000-05:00Hi Nate,
In my humble (and humbling) experience, ...Hi Nate,<br /><br />In my humble (and humbling) experience, one version of the St. Francis prayer gives a simple but difficult blueprint for self-discovery when it says, "Lord, grant that I may seek rather to comfort than to be comforted - to understand than to be understood - to love than to be loved. For it is by self-forgetting that one finds."<br /><br />Take care.<br /><br />FFliphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08141642385903218686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-13954962923994017822007-01-14T19:48:00.000-05:002007-01-14T19:48:00.000-05:00Nate -
This reminded me of another blogger that I...Nate -<br /><br />This reminded me of another blogger that I've followed his story and that I highly respect. Alden, in his first post on SecretSimon, said: <b><i>So, why hide my sexuality? Now is not the time for selfishness. I now have people who depend on me for their livlihood and I must follow through on that no matter what. My survival instincts as the leader of my pack have kicked in and I must act responsibly to them first and foremost.</i></b><br /><br />I've always been impressed with Alden because he's worked hard to know who he is without being selfish, to a fault at times.<br /><br />And, Nate, I have confidence that you'll grow in your self awareness AND remain responsible to all those around you. The more I look at Nate, I see that this isn't about sex, but about life -- and living.Paulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11877772974936424670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-22079884280861024442007-01-14T19:22:00.000-05:002007-01-14T19:22:00.000-05:00"The only thing that counts is trying to learn who..."The only thing that counts is trying to learn who I am and to be able to show respect – for her, for our family and to myself while I continue down this road.'<br /><br />Now THAT needs to go up on the fridge Nate - very well said!Spiderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12674252850304214980noreply@blogger.com