tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post7224905594590918303..comments2023-10-30T09:04:00.112-04:00Comments on Tales of a Bi "MWM": RequiemNatehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13642480079983859304noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-24193159890550391832007-08-01T16:22:00.000-04:002007-08-01T16:22:00.000-04:00This post reminds me of Ecclesiastes 3:1-10. Parti...This post reminds me of Ecclesiastes 3:1-10. Particularly, "A time to weep and a time to laugh; A time to mourn and a time to dance."Paulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11877772974936424670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-69618467675169009002007-08-01T05:24:00.000-04:002007-08-01T05:24:00.000-04:00"And after 20 years he still grieves".I suspect th..."And after 20 years he still grieves".<BR/><BR/>I suspect this will apply to many of us (mwm) at many levels for many years.<BR/><BR/>A touching post. Thank you.Anthonyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17900665225207683233noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-13315561668976882142007-08-01T01:29:00.000-04:002007-08-01T01:29:00.000-04:00I like you. For real.I hope you don't mind servin...I like you. For real.<BR/><BR/>I hope you don't mind serving a bit of a purpose for me in that I can vent onto you in such a way that it makes things seem downright pleasant for me and what was my circumstance. Even though, I'm not one to whine or be unpleasant even in what would be horribly devastating to many others.<BR/><BR/>ANYWAY....<BR/><BR/>The thing is...you make me just downright happy that my husband just up and decided he was really and truly gay and just went on with it...<BR/>I mean, we can wax philosophical for only so long....and you've done it for SOOOOooooollllloooonnnnngggg....<BR/><BR/>I think, for me, the waxing would be more palatable if it were in retrospect instead of all this waxing within the actual moment. <BR/><BR/>OK...all done now....I think. <BR/><BR/>hee hee! <BR/><BR/>You frustrate me. Of course, you would. No big surprise there. <BR/><BR/>I just want you to hurry up and get on with being gay so that Carrie will be able to get on with her stuff. And yet, I don't even know what "her stuff" is. I only imagine it based on my stuff, plus the stuff you go on and on about here(which i keep reading, ugh). For me, there's just such a peace and knowledge of being able to move on knowing that I gave it all I had (and the ex did as well) and now I can move forward. I just feel for Carrie and long for your burden to be lifted from her shoulders. Maybe I just perceive it...but...maybe not.<BR/><BR/>Yes, the dog is dead and the dog, like every other thing you shared over the years of your marriage represents all the things you've shared and some you never really did share. blah blah blah. Just move friggin' on!<BR/><BR/>Sorry...there I go again. forgive me. for real.<BR/><BR/>love and grace (really),<BR/>pamgracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16353719852472577554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20589943.post-75052743881366118852007-07-31T21:41:00.000-04:002007-07-31T21:41:00.000-04:00My heart is out to you tonight - I hope you can fi...My heart is out to you tonight - I hope you can find solace in the fact that he loved you very much as you loved him very much - and that is saying a lot in the crazy world of ours...Spiderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12674252850304214980noreply@blogger.com