I was going to abandon the blog. It was fun to check some of the blogs I discovered, but was not really relevant to my life. However due to search engines and some persistence, I have started to find blogs of other bi married men.
It is amazing how after years of a certain dormancy, it has become an "issue" at home. My wife knew (actually encouraged) an encounter I had a decade ago and then at then at her request I stopped. She announced a few months ago a "don't ask / don't tell policy" (why this occured is for another post); I was happy with the new policy and have had some encounters, but now it sort of feels like a "presence" lurking in our sex life.
I'm curious as to experiences of others. My wife and I had great sex two nights ago, but I am no longer sure what she is thinking when she has me use the vibrator on myself and reminds me of what a man would feel like. Suppose I should be happy - compared to a fully closeted life, this is much better and it has led to some great sex with her over the years.
Time to go back to the real work - thanks for reading